Friday, 4 December 2015

Ways To Show a Guy That You Like Him.

Ways To Show a Guy That You Like Him.

Last week i had the privilege to speak in one of the youth program organized by one NGO in Uyo,Akwa-Ibom. The hall was filed up with young singles but the topic i spoke on was "Leveraging the power of your potential to archive success in 2016". But when i touched the area of rules of dating successfully and how it can affect your career ,some of the young ladies started asking me these questions on how to make a man fall for them,some asked how to attract and show a guy that you like him,since the ego in ladies can not let them open up to a guy they love and they cant bear the pains of loosing him to another lady. I have researched and come of with these few important steps on how to show a guy that you like him and make him fall for you willingly,here they are:

1. Use Eye Contact and Body
How you look at a man and what
you do with your body, can say a
lot more than what words ever could. It's important that you give him plenty of eye contact
when you are talking with him and hold it for a second or two longer, than what you would with anyone else. Lean your body into him or hold his hands as you speak, showing that you aren't afraid to be close to him. If he's interested in you too, you
will see him subconsciously start to
feel the heat from your body language. As you speak with him, don't be afraid to gently touch him from time to time, Touching his arm as you smile and laugh at his jokes even if they dry, give him a warm hug when you greet and say goodbye to each other, this is a great way to pass the message to him.

It's important that you smile when you chat with him, your smile will be infectious and he will likely take this as a sign that you are into him. Make sure that the smile is not faked but genuine smile is the key. You will find that when you
smile more around him, you will naturally have more fun together which should help take things to the next level.

2. Let Him Know that You Are Available. Some men are absolutely clueless and assume that all good looking women are taken, so they
will not put the moves on right away. Make sure that you let him know that you are single, in a way that doesn't seem like you are begging
for a relationship. Always use this comment when you are
chatting together, like "Me and the girls are going out to have fun at shoprite,movies etc, it's been that way for a while since I haven't had a man in my life." If he's interested in you, automatically a wire will spark off his head and help him act more flirty towards you.

3. Ask Him Questions.
When you are chatting with him,try to throw in some vital questions about him,family and career. A lot of girls like to do all the talking (and talking is good too, don't get me wrong), but it's also important that you ask him questions.
This shows that you have an interest in the things that he likes, which means that you like HIM as a person. Paying an interest is a great
way to set up a basis for more dates and possibly even a relationship in the future don't forget to chip in what you like in a man,your ideal man.
It might sound like you are back in school but teasing is a way of flirting with one another and it's a fun thing to do, during those initial stages. A man who can laugh at himself is
awesome but remember if you can dish it out, you need to be willing to take it too. I have noticed generally that guys love women who are funny and down to earth, so having
a laugh with each other and joking around ensures that you are both on the same boat.

4. Give Him Your Number But Don't Boarder Him With Too Calls And SMS.
Men love the chase, so although you want to give him your number - don't set a date just yet. Once you are finished chatting, if its the first time don't ask him to get your phone number just let it be for another day. This will give him the impression that you are not flirting type. But,if after 2 or 3 days he should be interested to get your number or you can cut your chat short and promise to call him for further explanation from there he can be interested to call or text you if he really misses you. Don't reply too quickly even if you have the answers to his questions or not busy to receive his calls, try to make him chase you just a little bit.

By trying out the mentioned tips, even the most naive of men
will know you like them and will be falling at your feet.

There're lots of way you can too use to show a man that you like him. Why not try your best.

Hope Uchemadu.